Here is a list of parenting books recommended by members of the Hacker News community. All links are affiliate links to purchase these books from Amazon:
How to Talk So Your Kids Will Listen, and How to Listen So Your Kids Will Talk#
One of a few books that are recommended multiple times in this thread. 4.5 stars with 1000+ reviews.
Cribsheet: A Data-Driven Guide to Better, More Relaxed Parenting, from Birth to Preschool by Emily Oster#
Another book that was recommended by multiple people.
Be Prepared#
Brain Rules for Babies#
Let them Eat Dirt#
What to Expect First Year#
The Wonder Weeks#
NurtureShock#
The Whole Brain Child#
No-Drama Discipline#
Parenting From The Inside Out#
Bringing Up Bébé#
Peaceful Parents Happy Kids#
The Baby Whisperer Solves All Your Problems#
Unconditional Parenting#
Scientific Secrets for Raising Kids who Thrive#
The Gardener and the Carpenter#
Parenting without Power Struggles#
All Joy and No Fun#
Selfish Reasons to have More Kids#
Source: Ask HN: Parents of HN, what are your best sources for evidence-based parenting? | Hacker News